Tuesday, January 11, 2011

SEPARATION ANXIETY!


Hi sume! Kali ni saya nak kongsi pengalaman mengatasi masalah "separation anxiety" bagi anak yg baru dapat adik. Para ibu yang baru dpt anak kedua dan seterusnya akan merasai pengalaman ini. My dear Auni takes about 2 month to accept the fact that now she's a big sister to a charming lil' bro A'isy. Apa yg kita blh buat ialah cuba explain kat dia yg ni adik dia a.k.a kawan baru dia. Pastu make sure sediakan sume keperluan dia sebelum melayan adiknya pula sbb nnt tak lah dia merengek nak itu ini dan akhirnya mama pulak yg akan tension! Tapi perlu diingat jgn sesekali abaikan si kakak@ abang bila da ade baby baru sbb diorang masih memerlukan belaian dan perhatian kita. InsyaAllah perlahan-lahan anak sulung kita akan dapat terima adiknya dan mula menyayangi adik mereka cam auni n a'isy sekarang. Alhamdulillah........ bila tgk diorang berdua rasa bahagia sgt. Mama love both of u so much!

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

TAHUN 2011 YG MENCABAR

Sekejap jer da masuk tahun baru 2011, maka tutup lah buku tahun 2010 bersama sume memori tak kira lah yg manis atau yg pahit..........
Lega rasenya bila hal anak2 da disettlekan..... hehehhe cam tak caya lak dah ade dua anak. Rase br jer semlm kuar dating......(sebenarnya takleh terima kenyataan da tua). Biasa lah pompuan sensitip bab2 umur ni. Semoga tahun baru ni menjanjikan kebahagiaan dan kejayaan buat semua org yg saya sayangi di dunia ni.....AMIN!

Pre School!

It all happened quite unexpectedly. A visit to a preschool sparked off Auni's latest adventure – attending preschool.

We initially planned on starting her next year, unsure if it was still too young for the little one. However her first trial visit has led to numerous others. Auni seems to have adjusted well to her environment, teacher and friends.


Experts say if a child is nurtured adequately at home he does not need preschool. However a well-balanced, stimulating, pressure-free early childhood programme can be enriching and exciting. We considered preschool mainly for the interaction Auni will have with kids her age. We hope that she will acquire essential skills such as how to cooperate, take turns, help with chores, follow rules and instructions, make decisions. While the programme should not over-emphasis on academic achievement, it should challenge and stimulate a child intellectually and creatively.





Saturday, January 1, 2011

Potty Training

Ha.... arini nak bercerita tentang pengalaman "potty training" cik amira auni. Mula2 tu mmgterasa sgt mencabar dan penat sbb berlaku accident beberapa kali (auni terkencing n ter...... dlm panty dia) tp atas kesabaran dan kesungguhan akhirnya auni da takyah pakai pampers lagi diwaktu siang hari. Hooooray!!!!!! Ni nak kongsi skit tips camana nak "potty training" Mula2 kita kena tahu adakah anak kita da ready utk "potty training". Camana nak tau? Ooooo camni, anak kita da ready bila:

1-dia da blh buka dan pakai panty sendiri
2-dia faham bila kita ckp kita kencing atau b....k kat toilet
3-dia da blh cakap

ini antara tanda2 yg ketara ada lg tanda2 lain. Pastu blh la mulakan sesi "potty training" tu. Selalu ingatkan dia camni "kalau nak kencing ckp tau!" tanya selang setengah jam atau sejam. Pastu ajar dia duduk kat toilet n ajar dia bersihkan private part dia tu. Budak2 suka kalau dpt main air so secara tak langsung akan encourage dia pergi ke toilet. Selepas sebulan InsyaAllah anak anda tak akan pakai pampers disiang hari. Ini baru first level, skrg ni aku tgh usahakan utk auni tak payah pakai pampers dimlm hari pulak. Kalau da berjaya nnt kita share ye.